read the directions, even if you don't follow them.

Sometimes, you meet someone and off the bat you know that you don't like them.

Sometimes, you get to know someone a bit and then realize you don't want to get to know them.

Sometimes, you make a life-long connection with a person and notice hindrances to your relationship, but you figure out a way to deal with those hindrances.

Everyone makes their minds up the way they want, but it's your choice to do what's right for you.

My advice?

You know yourself. You know what kind of drama you want and/or can handle. If that person doesn't fit what you're looking for, take note, be amiable, and move on. The world is big enough for us to harmoniously exist on it; if we distance ourselves enough, we can sing different tunes without creating a cacophonous dissonance.